Hi! I'm, Trent, The Modern Manners Guy, and I'd like to make sure you know who I want you to vote for in this election. "Which election?" you ask. I'll talk about that and a few election Manners tips after a word from our sponsor.

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Talk Softly

I mentioned something about an election, but you're probably not interested in my opinion anyway, right? You don't listen to this podcast for political information. So it really doesn't matter which election or which country in which you might find yourself. Unless you are a political analyst who has been sought out for your mental prowess or journalistic integrity, it's probably best for you and me to be careful when we bring up politics or respond to a political conversation. Beating up candidates on Twitter or constantly filling your friends’ email inboxes with political information will most likely foster a sense of dread whenever your name shows up.

And Bury a Big Stick

Almost nothing outside of Steeler football can elicit such an emotional response from those around us as election talk. Politics concern us all. Even if we don't pay close attention to the news or candidate websites, the majority of us take politics VERY personally. Even the most harmless slander of a candidate or a political party can stir someone to anger. So, I would like to encourage you to put away that big stick. If you are someone who likes to argue or debate, you might find another topic about which to do your mental fencing.

From time to time someone could offer his or her opinion of your favored candidate in a distasteful manner and not even realize your position. I would encourage you to refrain from becoming angry in that situation. Verbally attacking their comment will usually further polarize you and the other person. Furthermore, an undecided bystander could see your intelligent lashing of the other person as a reason to dislike your side altogether.

When you realize someone has made a factual error, make a concerted effort to remain calm and respond with factual information – not anger. If someone asks about your political views, feel free to, again calmly, offer your passionate opinions and truthful insights about your party or candidate. Avoid mean-spirited bashing of others.

The old adage still holds true: We catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Your gracious demeanor could even persuade someone to change their mind.

Signs, Signs, Everywhere Signs

Now, what about political signage? Supporting one's candidate is honorable. My guess is that you are interested in showing that someone who can garner such support is worth a second look. But, displaying a sign or a bumper sticker that speaks ill of the opposing candidate usually is counter-productive to what you are trying to do.

Voting Vigilantes

Now, I am afraid that all this talk about the democratic process will send droves of voters from their homes and will cause some long lines at your local polling place. A good way to avoid those lines is to "Early Vote" if your area allows that.  If you're not able to vote early, just queue up with a pleasant attitude.  Standing in a line is not really all that fun, but how you approach it can help you and those around you relax. Always remember that you are taking part in a process that makes your country great.

And while you're standing there waiting to vote, it's inevitable that someone will start thinking he or she is way more important than everyone else in line. That person starts to wonder: "Why am I here behind all these slow people?" They well up with a sense of entitlement and start complaining loudly with grunts and huffs and threats to no one in particular that they will soon be writing Congressman Such-and-Such to put an end to long voting waits. We must all keep in mind that the privilege of having a voice in a free country doesn't mean we should use that voice to complain endlessly about the aforementioned long lines. In this situation, your kind attitude should have already endeared you to those around you so deflecting some of that frustration is certainly appropriate.  Don't feel like you have to do this. If you do, however; you might lightly get the attention of the Grumpy Gus and say something like, "It's a good thing we're not being forced to listen to Kenny G," or, "Oh, I'm just glad they let us vote in this country."

Don't argue with this person, and if he or she starts to get annoyed, please leave them alone. Most of the time, though, this kind of thing diffuses the situation and everyone lightens up.

Finally, I can't talk enough about what a privilege it is to vote. Should you live in a country where you are able to express your opinion through voting, please respectfully promote your candidate as you take part in the democratic process.

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